Mistakes made by Men
• Don't ask her how much she weighs or what her measurements are. You might as well just tell her you only want to sleep with her and you have no interest in getting to know her because that's what she's going to think if you ask her this.
• Don't email her seven times asking her why she hasn't responded to your first email. Women get far more email than men do, so you need to be patient. Instead of harassing her, relax and be confident that she's going to respond to you. Don't send her a nasty email if she hasn't responded to you after several emails. It's her prerogative
whether or not she desires to be in contact with you. If she doesn't want to meet you, don't get angry and nasty, there are other women out there who you can contact.
• Don't ask her how many other dates she's been on or how many other men she dated on this site. How many
other dates someone has been on is not important. What is important is finding out whether the two of you click when you hang out.
• Don't ask her if she wants to have sex with you on the second email exchange and don't send her dirty pictures
of you. Women are all about connecting with their minds. Just because you're looking for a quick fling, that doesn't mean she's going to respond.
• If she gives you her phone number, don't wait a week to call her. By extension, if you do wait a week to call her and she doesn't call you back, don't be shocked. Women have many options online. If she gives you her phone number, call her the same day.
• When asking for more pictures do so without any references to "Can you please send me a picture so I
can see your body?"
Ask her if she'd like to exchange more pictures, which means you send some and she sends some.
• Don't get offended if she doesn't want to talk to you on the phone right away and/or wants to talk to you via email first to get to know you. You need to be flexible and open to her suggestions. Sometimes you may need to email back and forth for a week and sometimes she'll give you her phone number right away. Either way, don't be rude.
• Don't send cut-and-paste emails. When connecting with her for the very first time, don't cut and paste an email message that you've been sending out for six months. By doing that she knows you didn't read her profile - and that you're really, really lazy!
